Goulash and Two Minute Cornbread-An Old Fashioned Country Comfort Food-O...

I grew up on goulash. Tom is one of my favorite You Tubers with a cooking platform. He's a pleasant, friendly guy. His wife handles the camera. And he makes the kind of food that my husband and I love. 

The Demon Spirits Behind Narcissism Involving Witchcraft

When people turn their backs on God, they will take on narcissistic traits. Gaslighting is the number one tactic of a narcissist. When you catch a narcissist in a lie, they will flip the script and make you feel like you are in the wrong. 

The fallen nature of a woman is attracted to a male narcissist, so many women will fall for him. It's time to increase your discernment and know the signs that someone is operating from the dark spirit of narcissism. The narcissist needs deliverance from this demonic spirit. 

WARNING: Are You Prepared for What is Coming?

Throughout Bible history, God always warned His people about major events coming upon the earth. He warns so that we don't fall into fear and panic. 

Are you prepared for what is coming? Israel is being attacked by Iran. This is an intentional attempt to start a world war. God has been warning about a time of darkness that people will feel. 

Things are coming upon the earth that we have never seen, and when it happens, you will recall watching this video, and you will know that God does not want you to fall into fear and panic. He will protect His people from what is coming, but He will allow certain chaotic, destructive things to happen, and those things will be shocking and uncomfortable. 

God is allowing the coming darkness in order to wake people up. The Bible warns in several places that we should not despise prophets. We are told in the Bible that God does nothing without first revealing it to His servants, the prophets. This video is a warning from God to those who have willing ears to hear it. 

"Buckle up! Buckle in! But remember: your enemies cannot win," says the Lord. 

I can't post this as a video because it would be taken down by those who want to keep you in the dark. Click on the link below to be taken to the Rumble channel. 

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HOW TO DEFEAT DEPRESSION AND RECEIVE GOD'S JOY

Even Christians are living in deep depression, anxiety and fear. God can restore your joy and free you of all those negative emotions. Tailah explains how to get your joy back and break the oppressive strongholds that are holding you down. When you have no joy, you have no strength. Watch the video and follow her advice if you want your joy back.

Why Do They HATE my SUCCESS? #inspiration #life #selfimprovement

Some people will hate to see you progress. They will pull you down like crabs in a bucket when they see that you are leveling-up. Don't let the criticism of people derail you from your dreams and goals. God is the only one qualified to speak into your destiny. He's the only guide you need on your path to self-improvement. So don't give your energy to the Hating Heffers. 

Some spiritual warfare symptoms! Let’s talk

Spiritual warfare is real. This girl is not crazy. She is a gifted child of God working to advance the kingdom of God, and that is why she's a target for spiritual attacks. She shares this so you realize what is happening to you if you become a target. 

10 SIGNS Someone Is SECRETLY JEALOUS of You !!

The more you accomplish, the more curious they get about your life. They don't want to see you succeed, and they will never praise you for what you do well. They will act unimpressed with your success. 

Jealous people find toxic ways to make themselves look better than you. They will slander your reputation, embarrass and shame you, and downplay your success. They will bring up odd topics just to prove you wrong.

They hate to see you in the spotlight and will talk negatively about your success behind your back. They will not attend events that celebrate you, and will do anything they can to destroy your confidence. 

Jealous haters will remind you of your mistakes. They want to make you feel like a bad person. They love it when you mess up. They find joy in watching you struggle, and they love to see you upset. 

These people are frustrated with their own lives, so they need to compete with your life. They are fearful, insecure, and they lack confidence. They despise the confidence they see in you. 

The Bible says that we will know people by their fruit. Watch the video so you know all the signs that you are dealing with a jealous person. This emotion can do great damage.

You are OUT OF THIS WORLD 🌎❤️ #dailybread #prophetic

When people think you are acting crazy as you get closer to God, take it as a compliment. You are not of this world. God is calling you to be transformed by the renewing of your mind, and that is what makes you look crazy to the world. You are taking on the mind of Christ, which is not the way the world thinks. 

They're Not Qualified To Speak Into Your Life (THEIR WORDS ARE USELESS &...

This is the topic of my next video, which will post on Saturday, April 13.

When you make people more significant to your goals and dreams than they actually are, you give them power. Don't let people put doubt in your mind and steal your peace and confidence. Don't give power to the negative and toxic opinions of people. 

Only God knows what He put inside of you and people don't get to comment on that. Be confident about the direction God is leading you in, and disqualify every voice that rises against you. Refuse to internalize their words and don't engage them in their toxic rants. 

Haters expose themselves when they speak negativity into the things you are setting out to do. You must disqualify their opinions from your life. Don't let them steal your focus and get you off track. 

Eagles - No More Cloudy Days (Live) (Official Video) [HD]

This overlooked gem from the Eagles has been turning up everywhere I go lately. God uses music to encourage us. Pay attention to the songs playing when you start your car, when you walk into a room, or when you walk past a radio or a street musician. Music is one of the ways that God speaks to us. The message in this song tells me I have a reason to be hopeful. The storm has passed.

YOUR SOURCE FOR EVERYTHING #spirituality #life #god

Are you feeling discouraged, depleted, or tired of the trials of life? Maybe you are looking in the wrong place for answers. Let's explore what the Bible says about how we should react when we are fearful, overwhelmed, confused, or troubled in any way. 

We often look to people for the answers to our problems. When we do that, we boot God off His rightful place as our source for everything. God promises to supply all our needs. That promise is in the Bible, and God can't lie. 

20 Truths I Wish I Knew About Toxic People In My 20's

"If I knew then" is a title from one of my You Tube videos. I appreciate this gal so much. I learned so much from her. 

Everything Is Going To Work Out!!!!!!

Oh my goodness! I mentioned this exact scripture in my last You Tube video. Nikki is one of my favorite sources of encouragement. She says so many things in this video that I have been talking about lately. 

Don't magnify the problem; focus on the promise--"...all things work together toward good for those who love God and are called according to His purpose." 

Stand still and watch God move on your behalf. Don't let fear cause you to make a decision that you will regret. Keep your heart right. A faithful man will always abound in the blessings of the Lord. God will prove to you that He will never leave you disappointed. 

Feeling Unusually Discouraged Lately?

Discouragement and disappointment can sap your strength and bring even more defeat into your life. If you find yourself in a battle for way too long, you are in dangerous place.  A discouraged soul no longer has  connection to God. And it is a terrible time to make major decisions when you are feeling discouraged. 

God wants to remove the discouragement and fill you with courage and strength. Don't yield to discouragement. Don't compromise and take steps backwards in your spiritual journey. 

Watch the video. Your soul and spirit is more important than your next step. You need to fill your soul before taking another step. Be still and get reconnected to God. Rely on Him as the source of your strength. 

God says, I will supply you with resources // Prophetic Word!!

If you are experiencing a lack of resources, you must trust in the Lord to unlock the resources you need. He can do this in amazing ways, and when you see Him come through for you, your faith will grow. 

God can send angels on your behalf. He can set in motion a wealth transfer. He can send people to help you. He can lead you to organizations, churches, groups, or businesses that will supply your needs. 

Pray and trust. God remembers you every second of every day. "Seek first the kingdom of God, and all these things will be added to you." That is God's promise to you. Go to Him.

This is the subject of my next video, which I will be posting on Saturday. 

AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR YOU, HE LOVES YOU SO MUCH!

On this Easter Sunday, we should all be reminded of how much you are loved and what Jesus sacrificed for you. For some people, today is just another holiday, but what Jesus had to go through makes it much more than that. Stephanie puts it all into perspective.

LESSONS THAT CHANGE YOU: UNRECOGNIZABLE #spirituality #life #selfimprov...

Some lessons in life are so profound that we can become unrecognizable when we finally grab onto them. Let's explore the first part of a series of lessons that will change the way we do life, improve our relationships and bring us peace. 

ACCESS GRANTED, YOU WILL NOT BE DENIED!

When you have favor with God, nothing can shake you. God will cover you with favor as a shield. People can try to come against you, but you will always come out on top. 

If you walk uprightly, the blood of Jesus speaks for you, and there is nothing that can come against you that will justify the contention, the denial or the rejection of people. Your prayer life will be favored too. You will always receive the equivalent (or better) when it comes to your prayers. 

This teaching by Shannon Wells is something that will change your realization of what you can expect from God when you walk in His will and His ways. 

Can you feel what’s coming?

The Francis Scott Key bridge has collapsed, and Christa Elisha has been prophesying for years that collapses are coming to our monuments and infrastructure. Whatever God is getting ready to do will be messy and sudden. 

Do your research on the history of eclipses. Another eclipse is coming on April 8. God sends signs in the sky, the sun and the moon. 

The Lord is grieved with the sins of our nation and His church. These sins have reached full capacity. The church has refused to confront cultural wickedness. We worship the idols of this age. We make excuses for our sins and are not taking responsibility for the condition of our souls.

The church has fallen away from its original divine blueprint. Dying churches are impacting no one. We need to wake up and use our voices to positively impact our circle of influence for the kingdom of God. Our nation was founded to be a missionary nation. 

🛑 They Realize You Found Something Better And It’s Driving Them Crazy‼️|...

The most significant part of the human experience is our ability to positively influence and change the lives of others, and our ability to bring a spirit of love into the atmosphere, which brings people together. God is moving back into His rightful position. We are no longer concerned about the lifestyles of the rich and famous. Celebrities are losing their influence. 

People are beginning to realize that fame, fortune and gathering material things leads to a life of emptiness, loneliness and discontent. The very best human experience can only be had when we open our hearts to what our hearts are longing for--the love and power of God. Let Shonda encourage you to let go of everything fake, phony and unsatisfying and grab onto something better. 

DENYING THE DEVIL WON'T STOP HIM: DON'T BE A NAIVE CHRISTIAN

Evil exists in the world. To deny that is foolish. Denying evil will leave you baffled and defenseless when it hits you or your children. 

The Bible tells us that we suffer because we lack knowledge. The devil and his demons are mentioned multiple times in the Bible. But even Christians will hold up the Bible as the word of God while ignoring any part of it that they don't want to deal with or believe. 

We need to stop sweeping unpleasant realities under the rug. We need to arm ourselves with biblical truth so we can fight the darkness that comes against us and the people we love. 

Mental Fog, Problems Concentrating?! (Something is happening worldwide 😳)

Are you experiencing brain fog, poor memory, confusion, anxiety and panic attacks or trouble concentrating? You are not alone. This is a global problem right now, and knowing what is causing it will help you to deal with it. 

You were MISTREATED!!!

When you have a good heart, you will attract narcissistic abuse. People want to dim your light. It's a spiritual battle. You must develop the confidence to know that you are a good person. You must gain the ability to spot a controlling, manipulative person who wants to make you the problem. 

When you are a Christ-follower, you are not the problem. Don't allow yourself to be a punching bag. Put up boundaries, even if it means standing alone. God is on your side. You are never alone. He will never leave you or forsake you. 

When It's Spiritual Warfare – Radio Classic – Dr. Charles Stanley – How ...

We are in constant battle with dark spiritual forces coming against us. If we don't realize who the enemy is, we stand at a great disadvantage in this battle. A stronghold is an area of weakness in your life that you have not yielded to God. It is an error in your thinking that Satan has set up in your life. 

Watch this audio teaching to learn how a stronghold might develop in your life and what you should do to fight it. Satan knows your weaknesses and he knows how to attack you, harass you and bring guilt in your weak areas. Satan is a great deceiver. Learn how to outsmart him. 

Angel Number 530: Decoding Its Spiritual Messages and Meanings"

Pay attention to numbers that keep popping up in your life. I had a dream about the number 530 more than a year ago. I finally looked up the meaning. I don't know why it took so long for me to look it up. In the dream, the number was mentioned as a time on the clock. I guess that's why I didn't pursue looking up the meaning of 530 right away. 

You might also be experiencing seeing 11:11 on a digital clock. This is a global phenomenon that you might want to look into. God does speak through numbers, and he wants us to pay attention. 

You’re called to be a “HIGH FLYER”!

Are you feeling frustrated, like you are not reaching your full potential? Do you feel like you are called to do more and be more? If you are not making yourself available to be used by God, you will feel a discontent in your spirit. 

In this video, Shannon Wells says that part of our calling as children of God is to elevate so we can see things from God's perspective. 

A spiritually mature person will make God her source for everything. If you are looking around and comparing yourself to others and competing with other people, then you are thinking too low. We must transform our thinking and look to God for revelation in every situation. 

1. You are called to exist in power and dominion.

Your power is the ability you have. You have the ability to do the same things that Jesus did when He walked on earth. The Bible tells us that we have the power to take authority over everything and everyone that comes against us. Luke 10:17-19 tells us that we have the power to trample on "serpents and scorpions," which is a metaphor for the works of the devil. So we have the power to call down every wicked scheme that comes against us and the people we love. 

2. You are called to take advantage of every moment for the goodness of God and His glory.

As a representative of Jesus Christ, you should constantly watch for divine opportunities and jump on them quickly. God will carefully craft an opportunity that matches you specifically. So ask God to open your eyes to opportunities sent by Him. A conversation with someone at the grocery store could be a divine connection that leads to a life-changing opportunity. 

We must look carefully at everything and everyone that comes into our lives. God will even use non-Christians to bless you, so be wise and careful as you interact with the secular world. But be careful not to waste your time and attention on things that will not give God glory. 

3. You should fly with other high flyers and receive wisdom from them.

We are told in Matthew 7:15-17 that we will know people by their fruit. Healthy trees bear good fruit and rotten trees bear rotten fruit. We must always ask ourselves if we should be yolking ourselves with the people we spend time with. What is our discernment telling us about their intentions and their motives? Our discernment will increase as we get into the word of God, renewing our minds and learning what is the good, acceptable and perfect will of God. 

HOW PRAYER AND POSITIVE WORDS CHANGE YOUR LIFE #prayer #faith #spirituality

Every situation in your life can be changed by your words. God has given power and authority to our words. We can speak blessings, breakthrough, healing and prosperity into our lives. We have more power and authority than we realize over everything that we deal with. We can curse our lives by complaining and speaking negative destructive words. God's hedge of protection falls off people who are chronic complainers. What you speak is what your life will be. 

WHY DO YOU FEEL SO EMPTY?

This is why you will always feel that something is missing if you are not in daily relationship with God. You can have more money than you know what to do with, and you can have all the pursuits of this world--an impressive job title, the admiration of people, wealth, travel and fun activities every week. All these things will still leave an emptiness in your soul at the end of the day. God will fill your heart and soul like nothing else can when you include Him in every part of your life and every hour of your day. 

HOW PRAYER MAKES MY LIFE BETTER #spirituality #prayer #faith

I've seen consistent answers to my prayers and consistent proof that God is listening. Today I'm sharing what I learned about prayer and how my prayers have been answered in the most amazing ways. 

Healing Word - Receive Your Healing - Joshua Mills & Steve Swanson

If you need healing for any ailment, come into agreement with this prayer. Better yet, pause the prayer and write it down or memorize it. Words have life and power. It is very important to speak healing words and to have a positive mindset when you are sick or fighting any kind of disease. 

We are made in God's image, and God spoke the world into existence. We have that same power and authority in the words we speak. 

It’s Magical When You Don’t Force in Life: The Art of Not Forcing

Forcing something to happen means that it's not meant to happen. If you find yourself forcing things, then you must be aware that forcing something does not lead to success. This is a difficult lesson to learn. 

This teaching ties in with my post from Thursday, February 22, titled, "Be Still. Don't Force It.." 

Dr Charles Stanley - How to Handle Those Who Hurt You Part 1

One of the most difficult things God asks us to do is to love our enemies. This teaching by Dr. Charles Stanley is and eye-opening look at what the Bible says about how we should respond to those who hurt us. Our response to those who harm us must always be in a fashion that is for their benefit, not ours. We don't want to stoop to their level of becoming their enemy. 

Wow! Who do you know that is good at that? Not me. But I'm learning. 

Grow Your MARRIAGE, Love Your CHILDREN, Care For Your HOME

What small changes could you make to bring more achievement, fulfillment and contentment to your life and the lives of your family? Today I am looking at three chapters from the book, "Small Changes for a Better Life," by Elizabeth George. 

Demonic Mind Games Narcissists Use to Manipulate You

Blaming you, playing the victim, not accepting responsibility for their actions, lying and making excuses... does that sound like anyone you know? A narcissist knows exactly how to trigger you. They can recall every mistake you ever made. They will push you to lose your cool so they can accuse you of a mean temper or having mental issues. 

Manipulation, guilt and shame are used to make you feel bad about yourself and second-guess your boundaries. Being in a relationship with a narcissist is emotionally exhausting. Manipulation is a form of witchcraft that always involves lying. Satan is the father of lies. A compulsive liar is almost always demonically influenced. 

We must be careful about the doors we open to the enemy. Watch the video and learn the tactics of a narcissist, so you realize what is happening. Once you learn these mind games, you will not fall prey to them ever again. 

President Trump Just Broke the Internet With This New Ad. #maga #trump #...

Go to my blog and read the featured post I wrote about Trump titled, "Why Hate a Man Who Does so Much Good?" If you think the intentional destruction of America and its people is a conspiracy theory, then you really need to do some research and pay attention to the gradual truths that are coming out. Follow Tucker Carlson. 

Corrupt people are being exposed, and there is much more shocking evidence to come. This is a war of good vs. evil. This war was prophesied in the Bible. Nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom. Even families will turn against one another. That is predicted in the Bible. 

If you are uncertain about the truth, ask God to reveal the truth to you. That is one prayer He will certainly answer. If this video gets blocked,

 look for Trump's New Ad on the You Tube channel, Look and Live. 

END TIMES SPIRITUAL WARFARE

The people who are coming against you could be operating through unclean spirits. The Bible warns us of spiritual wickedness in high places, and I have never before seen so much evidence of this wickedness all around me. This darkness is in our government, our medical system, our schools, the workplace, and even in the church. There is wickedness in every area of influence, and we must learn how to fight this evil in a biblical way. 

We must be led by the spirit of God in order to live successfully in these end times. We must know the spiritual authority that's been given to us, and we must enforce that authority over the things that come against us. Speak and pray the word of God. Words are spiritual and powerful. We must speak Life, Healing and Victory. Control and confront everything and everyone that is coming against you. Speak life over every situation. Declare what you want to see in your life. 

This is the best explanation of spiritual warfare that I have heard in a long time. Everything she says is backed up by scripture. Take the 30 minutes if you've been feeling like a punching bag. 

Be Still. Don't Force It. God Will Not Fail You. #relationship #spiritua...

Let's explore what we can do to ensure the best outcome for our problems and conflicts. There's a time to speak and a time to remain silent. Sometimes the best thing to do is remain silent and let God fight for you. 

Ten Ways HOLY SPIRIT Speaks to Us #holyspirit #life #spirituality

Let's explore 10 ways the Spirit of God speaks to us when we draw near to Him, and the many benefits that hearing from God can bring to your life. 

Spirit-Led LIVING a POWERFUL Life

The benefits of God's power working through you are many. Your life is enriched and empowered when you invite the Holy Spirit. In this crazy world we live in, there has never been a better time to be Spirit-Led. The Holy Spirit helps you to be more than you are, to say more than you know, and to do more than you can do in your own strength, ability, and understanding. 

They Want a Second Chance...Can You Trust They Have Changed? #forgivenes...

What are the clues that indicate they have really changed and they deserve a second chance? Let's explore the things that you should get from the people who hurt you before letting them back into your life. 

Consume Me - 1 Hour Soaking Instrumental

I'm not sure why this took so long, but today I discovered Spirit-led prayer. Up until now, I was writing down prayers and repeating them over and over. I was reading from a notebook during my prayer time. Today I asked the Holy Spirit to bring into my mind the things that He wants me to pray about. During my prayer time, I listened to this beautiful soaking music. If you need answers to prayers, pray in this way. Let the Spirit of God bring to your mind what to pray about and what to say.

Is GOD Happy With YOU? 8 Signs that point to YES! #haters #biblicalwis...

If you have haters, you are in good company. Jesus had many haters. Let's explore the eight signs that indicate God is happy with you and you are on the right track spiritually. Supportive relationships will also be a part of your life, and your experiences are drawing you closer to God. You will have a profound sense of purpose and a deep sense of peace and contentment. 

Princess Diana being treated horribly by everyone for 7:42 minutes straight

I don't think a car crash killed her. Her spirit was already crushed by the people around her. Having haters is a sign that you are doing something right and God has a plan and purpose for your life. This is the topic of my next You Tube video titled, "Is God happy with you? Are you on the right track with God?" I will be posting it in a few days. 

FINDING Your God-given PURPOSE

Did you know that you have a Holy calling on your life? God wants to use you for a unique and special task. Let's explore what we should know and what we can do to more easily find our God-given purpose. 

It's time to level up!

We keep going around the same mountains and fail to learn the lessons God is trying to teach us. 

If THESE 5 Things Happened, Your Season Has Changed

I had to share this because I know that my season has changed, and I know that what this man speaks is truth. God has pulled people out of my life. He has taken away provision. He has isolated me. He has put in me a desire to draw closer to him, and he has taught me how to use my sword to be victorious in spiritual warfare. My season has changed. I have stepped out of the nest, and for the first time, my wings are touching the sky. 

John Paul Talks About Rejection on Joni Table Talk

We all have rejection stories. This is why rejection is so devastating to people and can cause decades of lasting scars. People try to find importance and validation in people or in things like their careers or positions. Healing can only come when we stop seeing ourselves as a victim and realize that we have one powerful and everlasting source of love and acceptance. God's love will set us free of all the rejection we have experienced in our lives. 

My Achievements Don't Define Me: Advice to my Younger Self (Part 2)

My sense of self-worth is not tied to my accomplishments. I shouldn't make assumptions about a person or situation until I have all the facts. Wisdom and discernment are more valuable than gold. And a real apology is the only way to mend relationships. I wish I had learned these things at a much younger age. 

The Best & Worst Personal Care Products!

This guy cracks me up. I shared in my last You Tube video that Bobby Parrish is someone to follow if you want to educate yourself about the terrible and harmful ingredients in your food and personal care products. I forgot to mention that he's funny too. Laughing while you're learning is the best. "Run Forrest Run!"

If I Knew Then...Advice to my Younger Self (Part 1)

If only we could go back and do life over equipped with the lessons that we have learned. In this video, I share eight things that I wish I had known and applied to my life when I was much younger. 

Prophetic Word & Warning: What’s In Store for 2024?

Christa Elisha is a prophetic voice you should listen to in this critical hour. She had a series of dreams and visions that God gave her to warn us about shakings in the church, shocking exposures, justice, and corruption in the food industry. You will certainly want to be more selective about the foods you eat after hearing this. 

God is DOING something in families! W/ Jenny Weaver (EP 162)

If your family is in turmoil and broken, watch this video for inspiration and hope. No family member is ever too far gone when someone is praying for them. We need to rise up and become the spiritual warriors that God needs in this hour. You could be your family's only hope for restoration. Never give up!

2024 and You've Been Through a WAR: Lessons Learned

2023 was not a pleasant year for me. Many people are feeling battle-weary from constant adversity. But adversity often results in good things. Let's explore the lessons we can learn when people and situations come against us. Adversity builds character and makes us stronger. It can also be a faith builder. When we walk through adversity being guided by the word of God, we will always find comfort and peace through the storm, and our victory is promised.

Why Friendships End: 11 Reasons

To everything there is a season, and even friendships have seasons that must come to an end. God doesn't want you in a relationship that brings chaos, drama and stress. He does instruct us in the Bible to avoid certain people. Let's explore some reasons why you might be having doubts about a friendship. 

'The Holy Spirit Came to Me': Hollywood Star Embraces Christianity, Find...

She thought that Christianity was going to limit her, but instead she found amazing freedom. Now she has a different way of dealing with problems and heartaches. The burden of dealing with everything alone has been lifted. The Holy Spirit now guides her life and gives her peace and comfort in every situation. 

500 Facebook Friends and NO real FRIENDS?

Women today are living isolated lives, and many are confessing that they have no real friends. What is a real friend, and why is it so difficult to find quality friendships in today's culture? This video is part one of a loaded topic. 

Don't GASLIGHT me! I Know My Reality.

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that you should know about because it has become an epidemic in today's woke culture. You will not escape it. This video will help you to spot a gaslighter.

The Making of The Magic of Ordinary Days

Great Movies should always be shared. This movie is exceptional, and I don't say that about many movies. The scenery, the storyline, the acting talent...all of it came together into a joyful experience. If you need a delightful escape, here it is. You might find it on You Tube or other streaming platforms. 

Being Wise Among Wolves: Grey Rock Method

The Grey Rock Method is a valuable technique that builds a shield of protection against bullies. Teach it to your kids too. Wolves feed off of your negative emotions, but you can starve them with this easy-to-learn response that will stop them in their tracks. 

12 Signs You Have Emotional Maturity

If you can self-reflect, you can improve your emotional maturity. Here are 12 signs that you already have emotional maturity. This maturity helps you to maintain good relationships and to successfully navigate challenges and disappointments.

God Hates PRIDE: Seven Ways to Stay HUMBLE

The Bible is filled with stories of how God humbled prideful people and He still does this today. Here are seven ways to stay humble so we can avoid the embarrassment of God publicly knocking us down when we become puffed up with pride. 

Hell Truly Exists: Ten Reasons You Don't Want to Go

More than 150 Bible verses reference Hell, yet even Christians do not believe this terrorizing place exists. In this video, I give you 10 reasons you want to avoid Hell, according to Bill Wiese, author of the bestselling book, "23 Minutes in Hell".

Is the Devil real?

The Bible clearly warns us about the devil and his tactics. Yet, 50% of Christians do not believe the devil exists. In this video, I share why I know that the devil does exist. 

Words Have Power: What are you Speaking?

The words you speak affect people, animals and even plants. We need to be more mindful of the things we say because words have power. You can shift atmospheres in a room, uplift people and change the trajectory of your life with your words. Don't partner with your problems, speak against them. Your voice is your power. 

A SIGN of the TIMES: WHY ARE PEOPLE SO MEAN?

It's a problem as old as the Bible. And it is a sign of the times in which we live. In this video I explore the spiritual problem of narcissism, what drives this behavior and how can you spot a narcissist? Understanding the mean people in your life gives you an understanding of why they act as they do and it helps you to deal with them in a godly way. 

A Trip to Walton's Mountain and my Mail from Earl Hamner

A visit to the Walton's Mountain Museum in Schuyler, Virginia held a surprising discovery. In this video I share insights on my favorite TV show, why I find John Boy so endearing, and the email I received from Earl Hamner, the creator of The Waltons

Turn Your Crap into Gold

The five things you can do to rise from the ashes and take your power back when you are feeling beat up by life. 

Forgiveness, Trust, Anger and Apologies

Do you need to get to a place of forgiveness and reclaim your peace of mind? You can be set free from the daily torment of feeling stuck in your hurt. In this video, I address the difference between forgiveness and trust when you distance yourself from toxic people. I also talk about righteous anger and what makes an apology real.

Are You A People Pleaser?

When you make decisions to keep people happy and ignore your inner convictions, you distance yourself from God. You also become an enabler to the person who is controlling you. Little by little, you give pieces of yourself away to the people you try to please, and you become someone that your friends and family don't even recognize. People pleasing is a form of idolatry that you must break free from. 

Beware of Seeing Yourself Through the eyes of Others.

When we care too much about what others think of us, we enter dangerous waters. We can't serve two masters. We will end up loving and being devoted to one and hating and despising the other. We need to stop catering to people and start seeing ourselves through the eyes of the one who created us. Anything less is idolatry. 

WHO'S CARRYING YOUR BURDEN?

By Danelle Carvell

In high school, I spent many lunch breaks studying instead of eating. And I was starved by the time I got home. We can feel starved of more than just food. Sometimes the emptiness we feel is a longing for close supportive relationships with people who have our backs.

While clearing out a box of papers in the basement, I came across a four-inch stack of writings from many years ago. Today, I spent a good hour going through those thoughts on all kinds of topics. What memories it brought back. 

Although I'm taking a break from blogging to pursue other interests, I felt the need to share one particular short piece that I wrote back in 2007. I'm sharing it because I recently joined a small group study at LCBC church, and the topic relates to that decision. 

I've been part of the group for only two weeks, but already I feel that it is exactly what I've been craving for the past three years. I'm hoping that sharing this will inspire women to step out in faith and gather with one another in their homes or churches because we need the support of other women so we don't feel so alone in our burdens. It could be exactly what you need right now. 

Below is the entry I wrote 17 years ago:

Something was missing. I couldn't put my finger on it. My emotional and spiritual needs weren't being met. Although I was close to God, went to church, had a satisfying marriage and two great kids, an emptiness haunted me. 

I longed to be part of something... to share my faith more intimately with other believers. Perhaps the ladies bible study in Lykens was the answer. According to the newspaper, they would meet on Thursdays. So I called the number and planned to go. 

For me to step out of my comfort zone and meet with a group of strangers took a great deal of courage. I'm not a social butterfly, but these women made me feel instantly welcome. They truly had a heart for Jesus and a kindness that made me want to return. I told them the first night that they were a breath of fresh air for me, a stay-at-home wife and mother who rarely got out of the house. 

After eight weeks of enjoying the company of these gracious women, I didn't want it to end. My enthusiasm for the group to continue through summer led to an invitation. "Would you like to be a Bible study coordinator for our women's connection?" Before saying yes, I felt amazed what can happen when you step out of your comfort zone and faithfully go where God is calling you. 

Is God calling you to join a Bible study? Perhaps he's calling you to guide one. Don't ignore that inner longing. If sitting in a pew for an hour once a week is your only spiritual nourishment, then you're probably starving as I was. Large groups of people who know little about you can't satisfy your need to be known and cared for. 

We need consistent contact with people who really know us and who care about our well-being. "Carry each other's burdens and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." The Bible suggests that we meet regularly with a small group of other believers. Small groups allow us to get to know each other, and wonderful things happen when believers gather. 

Now I'm guiding a bible study, and a wonderful thing happened last week when the women in our group shared the most amazing stories of how God revealed himself to them and helped them. One woman shared how she had lost her son in a store and after searching everywhere inside the building she frantically ran outside and saw her precious little boy being led back into the store by a stranger, one of God's angels assigned to protect her family. 

From finding a lost wallet to discovering a special book lying along the road, these women were bursting with testimonies of God's daily love and guidance. I left that night feeling so uplifted and inspired. And none of that would have happened if I hadn't stepped out of my comfort zone and attended that first bible study where God was nudging me to go. 

Who's carrying your burden? God created us to need being around people and to be part of a community. What invitation have you come across that you should say "yes" to? 

 

LET IT GO AND TRUST THE OUTCOME

By Danelle Carvell

                                                

Not a flattering photo, but sometimes life just isn't fun. I'm learning that there is a right way to handle disappointment. 

Are you dealing with a disappointment right now? Does an unresolved issue keep coming to your mind? Do you have conversations with yourself about your troubles? And are you wondering why God doesn't do something about it?

This morning, before we went to church, a subject for a future post came to my mind. I wrote on a post-it note "how to hand problems over to God and have peace." And I placed that note on my laptop. 

Then I asked Him to lead me to teachings that would help me write about that subject. Well guess what the sermon was about this morning--What to do when you don't know how to handle disappointment. Once again, I was amazed by the God that I serve and the way He answers prayers and guides my mind. 

Our hurts, our longings and our disappointments can be a source of distraction, anxiety, exhaustion and depression. Who hasn't dealt with a troubling problem and the disappointment of seeing no resolution. When God doesn't answer our prayers about something important, what is the right thing to do. How do we best handle it? 

I've had my share of disappointments in life, as I'm sure you have. And I have made a lot of mistakes in the way that I handled those troubles. I'm still making those mistakes, but I'm learning to handle my hurts in a better way. 

I don't recall getting mad at God for my disappointments, but some people do go that route. And it's not a wise decision because He can best get you through it. I'm still waiting for healing of a chronic sleep issue after 17 years. My prayers and closeness to God are what gets me through each night and the tired days. Where would I be if I allowed the problem to distance me from the source of my strength? 

I can't recall blaming God for a problem, but one mistake I have made is trying to fix things myself. God wants us to lay our problems at His feet and then trust Him with the outcome. But our human nature wants to take control and manipulate the outcome. We don't want to wait for answers. We are impatient. Instead of allowing God the time He needs to bring peace to the situation, we take the wheel.

When people are hurting or disappointed, they want their feelings validated. They want understanding for their hurts. They want solutions. They want apologies. They want someone to acknowledge the wrong that was done to them.  

But I can't convict a person's heart. Only God can do that. I can't be a problem solver without the Way Maker. In other words, the problem is not mine to fix. Yes, I can address the problem. I can plead my case to those involved. But once I do that, I need to step back, pour my heart out to God and let it in His hands. That is what I'm learning right now.

My hands need to be open. I have to let it go. My open hands represent my willingness to give the hurt to God and then accept His answers in His timing. If I hold onto that problem with a tight fist, I will end up even more disappointed. 

The question I've been pondering lately is... How do I have peace while I wait for the problem to change? The answer came to me in this morning's sermon--I must believe that God can fix it, but also accept that He might not. I do believe that God can fix anything, but sometimes He chooses not to give us the things we pray for. And we have to trust His reasons. 

We often don't see the reasons for our sufferings until years later when we look back on that situation and realize how God really was working on our behalf. We can see how He got us through it, and we can better understand why it worked out the way it did and why it took so long. God is operating from an all-knowing perspective. Our human minds don't have His divine wisdom in every situation. 

"For we know that all things work together for the good of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose" 

That scripture, Romans 8:28, is the answer to our disappointments, all our problems, all our frustrations, and our unmet longings. When you're hurting, you have to hang onto something. So keep repeating that scripture and believe that God is working it out for your good. 

Faith is powerful. Frustration is not. 

LIFE'S BEST ADVENTURES ARE NOT IN THE COMFORT ZONE

By Danelle Carvell

                                                                                

                                                  

This position is out of my comfort zone today. But in the seventies, gymnastics shows during half-time at basketball games were some of the most fun times in high school. I made new friends, and I pushed through the fear of solo performance. 

 Have you ever stepped out of your comfort zone and tried something new, maybe something you were afraid to do, and then found the experience to be frustrating? This is where I find myself right now. But I don't want to discourage anyone from trying something new because good things always come from pushing through your fears and trying something different. 

For years, I tossed around the idea of making videos, rather than just writing posts. But I didn't feel confident about it, so I didn't try it. This summer I managed to push through all my doubts and fears and I recorded some videos on my phone. They started out as cooking and baking videos and then I did a series of videos titled, Detox Your Home. 

I posted about eight videos on my blog, and everything seemed to be moving along fine until I wasn't able to post the link to my last video. Then I discovered that all the prior videos I had posted were no longer there. I believe the problem is that the overall content on my blog is not suitable to Google's guidelines. In fact, they told me so.

So my videos on this blog are no longer accessible. I posted all but one on Instagram, and those are still there, except for one, which was too long for Instagram, so that one is lost. 

So at this point, if you want to watch the other seven videos, you will have to follow me on Instagram. They are there for now anyway. 

I don't regret making the videos. I learned that I do have the confidence to stand in front of a camera and share things. And it was fun to see new people follow me on Instagram because of those videos. Liam Neeson, the actor was the most shocking follower. Maybe he wants to detox his home, I don't know, but I got a kick out of that. 

So if there's something new you've been thinking of trying, I want to encourage you to go for it. Yes, there is a chance you will fail and there is a chance that the experience will be disappointing, but something good will come of it, I promise. 

Maybe you will meet someone that you would not have met if you hadn't stepped out and tried this new thing. Maybe an opportunity will come your way that would not have come if you had let fear stop you. Maybe you will learn something valuable. Maybe you will build confidence that you can use to pursue future goals. Something positive always happens when you step out of your comfort zone and try something new. 

So whatever it is that you've been pondering trying. Take a step toward it, and see where it takes you. Life is so much more rewarding and adventurous when you venture out of your comfort zone. 

WHAT IS SPIRITUAL ARMOR and why do you need it?

By Danelle Carvell

                                                

We protect our bodies from the sun, yet fail to put on our spiritual armor.

Last year, I experienced the most real, intense spiritual battle of my life. Maybe some day I can share the whole story, but for now I can only say that I was laying sideways on the floor, unable to move, and I knew that I was under a demonic attack. My only option was to pray. The prayer started as a whisper, because I was exhausted from not sleeping for three days straight. 

As I kept praying, I felt something come over me that gave me strength. I knew it was the Holy Spirit. As I pushed myself up off the floor, my prayer became progressively louder and more forceful until it exploded into what felt like a victorious battle cry. And I knew that I had won. Through that battle, I learned the authority that I have and I learned how to use it. 

The believer who puts on spiritual armor and engages in spiritual warfare is marked. The devil will do all he can to prevent you from knowing your authority and using it against him. But you must learn that do have authority over Satan's attacks as you go about your daily life. 

Many Christians do not realize the authority they have. To learn more about your spiritual authority, I recommend The Believer's Authority by Kenneth Hagin. I wrote about spiritual authority in a July 7 post. You can scroll down the home page of my blog to find it. The post is titled "What do you Want That is Different?" 

We must recognize that we have an enemy, the devil, who is battling to pull us away from God and destroy our lives in any way he can. The spiritual realm is very real and it is operating in high gear right now. You have probably been feeling the heaviness of the battle we are in for the freedom and soul of our nation. We must learn how to fight this battle not only for ourselves and our families, but also for our nation and the people who are working to save it. 

"So often people struggle to recognize that the battles they face every day are not against other people but against spiritual forces. Human nature leads us to believe the conflicts we face in life are because people have wronged us. While sometimes that is true, there is also a bigger spiritual enemy whom God wants us to focus on defeating. So Paul urges you to put on your spiritual armor," says Chelsea Kight in her article What is the Armor of God @ cru.org

"God offers you the same armor that He protects himself with. Recognizing and making use of the armor God gives you is part of becoming more like Him. So it is important to understand the different roles of each piece of armor God tells you to put on," Kight explains. 

Spiritual armor is outlined in Ephesians 6: 10-17. You should read that scripture so you can see how God made full provision for your safety. The different parts of this armor symbolize spiritual truths that belong to the believer. 

By wearing this armor, your authority over the devil is protected. But you must keep your armor well-secured around you. And you can't do that simply by "praying on" your armor every day. You have to live out each part of your armor and "work it" in order for it to work. 

The Belt of Truth

This represents a clear understanding of God's word. You need to know what the scriptures say about every problem you encounter because the devil will tell you lies about yourself and other people. He will accuse you to make you feel guilty, uncertain or unworthy. He will tell you lies about God and about the situations you encounter. You can't just "pray on" your belt of truth; you need to put the time in and study God's word. This is the only way you can stand strong and defeat the lies of the enemy. 

The Breastplate of Righteousness

"To protect yourself with the breastplate of righteousness, means to claim for yourself the righteousness before God that only comes from Christ and then grow in obedience to Christ with His help," says Kight. In other words, love and accept Christ and then be obedient to God's word. You can't just "pray on" your protective breastplate and then not bother being obedient.

"When we focus on right living, honoring and obeying God's will, and saying no to sin, we are actively living out and experiencing the righteousness we have as followers of Jesus," Kight says. 

Shoes for your feet

Your feet must be shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace. This is a faithful ministry proclaiming the word of God. What are you doing every day to bring peace to others? Are you sharing your faith with others? Are you living as God intends you to live? 

The Shield of Faith

This represents our complete safety under the blood of Christ. You must remember that your faith in God will keep Satan's arrows from wounding you. Kight suggests that you begin each day by reminding yourself what is true about God and what is true about you. Find  verses that you can meditate on throughout the day. Keep speaking God's promises until trust in God becomes your natural response to every situation. Again, you can't just "pray on" the shield of faith. Faith is something you live out every day. It takes effort. 

The Helmet of Salvation

We are living in dark days when many people are turning away from the truth of God's word. You must protect your mind from this darkness. Your salvation is your greatest gift. By meditating on your salvation (which you cannot lose) you will overcome the fear that something you said or did will separate you from God. 

The Sword of the Spirit

This represents God's word, your offensive weapon for spiritual warfare. God's word is an active weapon that cuts like a sword when you feel attacked. During His 40 days in the wilderness, Jesus used scripture to combat Satan's attacks. You can withstand every attack of the enemy by speaking the appropriate scripture for that situation. But you have to know the word of God. You can't just "pray on" your sword. 

The spirit world is real. Even though you can't see evil spirits, you can certainly feel the effects of their attacks. Do you deny wind because you can't see it? No. You can see and feel the effects of wind, so you know that it's there. Why is it so hard to believe that you might be dealing with a spiritual problem? 

FOREVER IS A LONG TIME

By Danelle Carvell

                                                    

People who say they've been to Heaven have amazingly similar stories. Shouldn't we all be intrigued by that? 

You can't argue with a personal testimony. When someone experiences something, I can't question that experience because I was not there and I am not that person. So when someone claims that they went to Heaven, I can't argue or prove them wrong. 

I wouldn't want to prove them wrong because I'm looking forward to seeing Heaven one day. I believe it is a real place because the Bible says so. And God has been allowing people to experience Heaven and then return since biblical times. They have returned to earth with obviously similar stories, which leads one to believe that Heaven is real and we should be concerned about the requirements for getting in. 

Dr. Eben Alexander, a Harvard-educated neurosurgeon, contracted bacterial meningitis. At one point during his illness, he went into a coma and visited Heaven. He wrote about his experience in the medical journal, Missouri Medicine. 

Alexander described a white bright light, beautiful music, colors beyond human understanding, constantly blooming plants and millions of butterflies. He said people didn't speak, but they transmitted thoughts without speaking. The experience led him to write a book titled, Proof of Heaven.

Don Piper described the same beautiful music, a bright white light and the most vivid colors he had ever seen in his book, 90 Minutes in Heaven. Piper went to Heaven in 1989, after his car was hit by a truck on a rainy day while crossing a bridge. 

He said that the bright light came directly from the glory of God. Even his sense of smell was tantalized. Piper said that Heaven smells wonderful. And he confirmed that the streets are paved with gold. 

After his car accident, Piper had no detectable pulse for 90 minutes until a passerby prayed over his lifeless body. His recovery was brutal because his injuries were horrific. He had body parts laying in the back seat and a list of bones that were either broken or shattered. 

Piper said that his grandfather was standing at the entrance to Heaven waiting to welcome him. He had been very close to his grandfather before he died. Other people that he had known before they passed were also there to greet him. 

His experience was made into a movie also titled, 90 Minutes in Heaven. I recently saw it on Pure Flix. What that man endured can only be compared to what Jesus went through. He was conscious during the ambulance ride to the hospital and his pain was hard to watch. 

Another person who claims he went to Heaven is Colton Burpo, who was three years old at the time. He died briefly on the operating table after his appendix burst. When he came home, he told his family that he saw Jesus. 

Like Don Piper, Colton also saw family members in Heaven. He met his great-grandfather, who had died before Colton was born. His parents were amazed when Colton got back home from the hospital and was able to identify his great-grandfather in a photo album. 

Colton also met a sister in Heaven that he didn't know about because his mother had a miscarriage. Colton's parents had never talked about their baby that died before Colton was born. Imagine his parents surprise when he told them that he met his sister in Heaven. His amazing story was turned into a bestselling book and a 2014 movie, both titled Heaven is for Real. 

Another child who went to Heaven is Annabel Beam. This little girl had been suffering from a mysterious illness that left her incapacitated for years. In 2011, she fell head-first into a hollow cottonwood tree in her front yard. She was trapped inside for five hours. 

Shortly after the ordeal was over, her family discovered that Annabel was completely healed. She was no longer in pain and she could run and move as she did before her illness. Annabel told her family that she met Jesus. He had on a white robe with a purple sash. She described Heaven as a peaceful place with lots of light and no pain. Her story was also turned into a book and a 2016 movie, both titled Miracles from Heaven.  

Now a cynical person would say that these people just wanted to sell books, so they made all that stuff up. I say, "What if God allowed them to come back from Heaven so they could convince unbelieving, cynical people that Heaven is Real?"

Eternity is a long time. And God doesn't want anyone to perish. You can't escape eternity once you're there. You will be there forever. That is a big deal. And if you're not thinking about that big deal, you should be. 

The Bible says that the road to Heaven is narrow. And the road to Hell is much wider. Which road are you on? Is it wise to gamble with your own eternity?

You can call me a religious nut, but you know deep down that there is a chance I'm right. Which one of us has our butts covered the best if I am right . Am I the nut, or are you? 

IF YOU'RE A FAN OF THE WALTONS

Every now and then I share fun things that I have discovered. I have always been a huge fan of The Waltons, so it was fun to discover that the gal who played Mary Ellen has a You Tube channel devoted entirely to the show. She interviews the cast and other actors who contributed to the show. And she shares some "behind the scenes" info that you couldn't see as you watched the show. 

My favorite character was John Boy. And Erin was my favorite of the sisters. One of our family vacations was to the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, where Earl Hamner, the creator of The Waltons grew up. We saw the Waltons Mountain museum and I spoke to someone in a gift shop who knew Earl Hamner. 

Judy talks about some of her favorite episodes of the show and gives us an inside look at what it was like to be part of it all. To me, her channel is fun to watch because I recall every single episode of the show and it's fun to learn all the extra things that went on behind the scenes of each show. 

I am fascinated with the early part of the 1900's and the simple lives of country folks back then. I secretly wish that I could have experienced that time, when life was less rushed and more peaceful, with more of a sense of community. I love old country stores and  antique cars and the way the women dressed back then, especially the hats. If you like my blog, you will most likely enjoy Judy's channel. She notices and appreciates many of the same things that I notice and appreciate about people, places and things. 

WHY FORGIVENESS DOESN'T ALWAYS FIX IT

By Danelle Carvell

Although we are supposed to forgive, there are times when forgiveness will not bring everything back to the way it was. Here's why:

 

1. Unhealed emotions

There could be some unresolved issues at work. There might even be a deeper underlying issue at work, something that happened in the past that is making it harder for a wound to heal. Feelings, wounds and emotions take work and time to process through. We need to be patient with people who are hurting. 

2. It's still happening

If the offenses are repeating and you're not seeing any consequences for their actions, then you could continue to feel troubled. If the person has not admitted any wrongdoing, it is impossible to open your heart and take a chance on trusting again. People often confuse forgiveness with trust. You can forgive someone but still not trust them. Trust must be earned. 

A toxic person will demand your forgiveness and trust without admitting any wrongdoing. A safe person will recognize what they did wrong and have a desire to work hard to earn back your trust, while knowing that it's going to take some time.  If the only thing that's been offered are excuses, lies, and half-hearted apologies, then you won't feel safe to let that person back into your life. 

3. You haven't accepted reality

Do the words and actions that they expressed after the offense truly deserve a second chance? When someone can't admit their wrongs, they are telling you who they really are. The Bible says that we will know people by their fruit. If you expect the person to change simply because you called them out and then forgave them, you could be setting yourself up for further hurt. 

If you're not seeing the fruit of an honest person admitting their wrong and being willing to put in the time and effort to earn back your trust, then you need to stop wasting your time and accept the reality that you are dealing with a toxic person and you might be better off to keep your distance.  

PINEAPPLE TEA fresh off the stove

I'm learning to be more frugal with the outer shell of certain foods. 

I'm sipping pineapple tea as I'm posting this. Pineapple contains a list of vitamins. minerals and antioxidants that have many health benefits. This tea is also anti-inflammatory. Next time you cut a pineapple, take a few extra minutes to make yourself some tea.

Pineapple Tea

Wash the outer shell of the pineapple very well and rinse with cool water. Cut off the top and bottom of the pineapple and discard this part. Save the side shells and put into a large pot filled with 6 cups of water Heat to boiling and take off the heat. Let sit for one hour with lid on.

Remove the scraps and strain the liquid through a fine strainer. Add:

 1/4 teaspoon ginger

1/4 teaspoon of turmeric

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

1 and 1/2 Tablespoon of lemon juice

1 Tablespoon maple syrup 

I added more sweetener to this recipe. Leave out what you don't like and add what you do like. Turmeric is a strong anti-inflammatory and so is ginger. You'll get the full benefit by following the recipe, but you might want it sweeter. Stevia is a good option too for sweetener.